10 mistakes that successful people do not repeat

Mistakes of successful people

Never go back. “ What does that mean? From the observations of successful people made by the psychologist and author of “Never Go Back: 10 Things You’ll Never Do AgainHenry Cloud, discovered that there were certain “Discoveries” that these people had — in their lives and in their work — and that once they had discovered it, they no longer returned to their old way of doing things.

1. Go back to what didn’t work

Whether it’s a job or a relationship that ended for some reason, we shouldn’t go back to the same thing. Expecting different results without anything being different is not a smart way to spend a life.

2. Do anything that forces you to be someone you are not

Before doing anything we should ask ourselves: Why am I doing this? Am I prepared for it? Does it overwhelm me? Is it sustainable? If the answer to any of these questions is yes, you should have a very good reason to continue.

3. Try to change a person

When you realize that you cannot force someone to do something, you give them freedom and allow them to experience the consequences. In this way, you find your own freedom too.

4. Believe that they can satisfy everyone again

Once you understand this common mistake that it is really impossible to have everyone satisfied, it is when you start living at ease, trying to satisfy the right people. The first you.

5. Choose short-term comfort for the long-term benefit

When successful people know they want something that requires a painful step, they don’t mind the immediate sacrifice, as they know they will reap the long-term benefit. Living under this type of principle is one of the fundamental differences between successful and unsuccessful people, both personally and professionally.

6. Trust someone or something that seems perfect

It is normal for us to be attracted to people or things that seem “incredible”. We love perfection and we should always be looking to be one.

7. Take your eyes off the big target

We function better emotionally and perform better in life when we can see our great purpose. For successful people, no event is the whole story.

8. Neglecting your attention

No matter how good something looks from the outside, only by taking a deeper and more attentive look can you find out what you really need to know: the reality you deserve.

9. Don’t wonder why they are where they are

One of the biggest differences between successful people and those who are not is that in love and in life, in business and in relationships, successful people always ask themselves: what role am I playing in this situation, how have I got here and what can I do to fix it? In other words, they don’t look like victims, even if they were.

10. Forgetting that your inner life determines your outer success

The good life sometimes has little to do with external circumstances. Most of the time feeling happy and fulfilled has more to do with your inner attitude than with anything else. With how you really look in your life. And it is that our internal lives contribute greatly to produce many of our external circumstances.

My strength is to challenge and change other people’s mindsets. What helps me to make my blog posts interesting is also simply to lead an interesting life